I would like to add that I lived and still do in the same neighborhood where she works and she would stare non stop every time I walked by her to the point I was intimated by her good looks and I would not make eye contact. Lastly, the only time I would encourage you to maybe stick around is when a woman is open with you that she wants to be with you but is going through a difficult time like studies, loss of a family member, child troubles, etc. Spending about 5 minutes. Apollonia. As i said i dont want to think Ive been used by her and Ive completely misjudged her character, but i cant un-do the things i said to her and what she said to me. I am aware that unfollowing someone has more to do with . I work at a hospital shes a nurse. "I have to say, I have done it a little bit, but I at least have the decency to do it from a burner account," Lorenz jokes. thank you for sharing these infos Thank you miss apollonia, Thanks again for leaving me 2 comments on my blog post She Rejected Me But Still Acts Interested! So, if a girl has rejected a guy because of that reason, why is she still acting interested? My name is Apollonia Ponti. I am really confused n hurting !! He wants you to talk about him to his friends. Then she said. You need to make her accountable for the words that come out of her mouth. I have to say i was a bit disappointed with her reaction and compassion. If she needs the support then support her but also show her that you will give her personal space and not become overbearing. Im not doing the chasing, but I also dont want to play games, so now I figure, she knows my number, weve never spoken on the phone and weve been out 3 times lol it seems so stupid for 2 people in their 40s, but the interesting thing is that shes told me a whole lot of deep things about her past, so mixed signals all around. In this case, write them a letter outlining your feelings and explain that you won't be talking to them anymore. ShaunaM95 Follow. Apollonia. But she also still looks at my Instagram profile and stories and follows me, after I decided to unfollow her because of how I'm feeling. Dont give them any reason to do this. Youre right when you say, that a man must stand his ground based on his own principles and not let anyone detour his progress towards becoming successful in life. Women are attracted to the inner confidence of a man and I talk about how to get out of the friend zone anymore in my product here! You were constantly trying to make her happy but forgot about yourself during this time. I know that she will be friendly at work, after the weekend (or at least i hope). We talked different common things for 20 min. This means that you are trying to make the goal fast and you are frantically recovering, and trying to make up for everything and typically giving 100% of your attention that you lose yourself in the pursuit and this is what will kill attraction. 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. So what do you think? In laymans terms, gaslighting is the psychological manipulation of someone to make them doubt their sanity, particularly by encouraging them to doubt their own experiences or perceptions of reality. She told me that she wont allow me. They might need some time and space to process their feelings or resolve any issues that might have led to the communication breakdown. That made me mad. Hi Zibusiso, Hi There! Hey Bryzow. One day during conversations she mentioned she is going back to France for one month holiday. Anyway, out of the blue, she all of a sudden stopped texting me. I welcome your comments, questions, and concerns below this blog, so if you need some advice on your specific situation, all you have to do is comment below and I will try my best to respond. #3 She is no longer interested in you. But that doesnt mean she will like me. So why do some women act interested in order to have the attention from the men that they are not interested in? She knew i was married from day one and we dated then her ex once came back and physically assaulted her, from there she just told me she is broken and she is just distant. Men will do the same thing with a woman that hes not interested in (similar to hooking up with someone you dont want to date.. its a quick fix). The Relapse Mentality. 7 Reasons Why! Being true to ourselves is definitely important. I realised that i like her too, but i was very cautios because she is married. As a coach, who also happens to be a woman, I have coached thousands of men in this type of situation. One day during conversation she asked casually if I make more money than what make in India, also which car do I drive, to which I replied, I can buy a car but I dont need one as UK is not my home country. You assumed a different character thinking that finally a woman will say yes to you- but you did not realize that a relationship is a private affair, and that your woman must know your true or private self. on a normal day we can call and talk for abt 2 hrs non stop. Part of re-attraction is understanding that you are not attached to an outcome and we are not obsessing over one desire. I was browsing and found your blog very interesting, and another reason why I am of the view that the game of romance is a waste of my time. Or if you want when she comes in to your office you can play her game, throw it back at her. I didnt made any moves, even if i knew i could kiss her on a few occasions. He or she wants to know what is new with you. I usually dont ask for help in this kind of matter, buy i think i need your advice. He wait until both can go separate ways. And theres no need for us to contact each other. This is something that happens all the time and I know exactly what to do. women have to play hard . Your email address will not be published. So recently she left my hospital and she went to another job. I know that things and situations are placed in front of me. I think backing away may peak attraction but its important that you focus on reality and not the story. I have Ben reading your advice. No, it was the same so the only thing is to move on and forget on her. And have the great life I deserve. I told her that i have patience (im sure she didnt liked this either, and for good reasons) but i will try just once more. At this point, you may be thinking, Why in the world is this girl playing these games? In fact, he might even have feelings for you that he just can't express. Im grateful to be learning how to gain more confidence and control of myself, by listening to your advice about how to really handle my own emotions when getting to know a womans ways. Apollonia, Thank u soo much Apollonia. 1. I am so glad to hear that you are feeling fresh! Best, Hi Vaibhav, If someone has stopped talking to you but is still following you, it could be that they're not ready to talk to you yet. This post reassured me I was making the right decision. Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that can have long-term consequences for the victim. We work on dating and relationship skills with Apollonia and her team. Apollonia. Best, Team Apollonia, Thx I like this girl and I was trying to hard im going to trust in myself and stay true to myself, Im happy to hear that the blog helped you Julius! So pedestal on OFF!! 1) He's been talking to your friends. 7. Hi Apollonia. Apollonia. If she rejected you, she probably hasn't made up her mind. Mine still follows me on the site we met on, and still has me on messenger, just hasn't read my messages. I know she didnt liked that, and she backed off a little for a while. What should i do in this situation? If someone does that to you, they don't value you, and you should value yourself and cease all contact with them. If her aim was just to have fun or to flirt with a guy but she rejected him because he was serious, why does she still act interested on that guy? and then you go. Now Im really confused whats going on why shes not stepping forward and trying to establish a relation. I know I missed my chance and I screwed the situation myself. May would be a year. Thank you so much! If that will be the case, you can decide if you will like to continue the relationship with her or not. After that meeting I didnt call her anymore and she the same not (1 month). It should only be used for the right reasons. And if i dont wanna let it go, how should i proceed to turn her back? She said she just had to figure her life out. I was ok. She asked me if im upset and of course i answered that im not. I decided that I wouldn't hound her and give her space. Is she waiting for him to change? Shes not innocent with her patterns of behavior towards me and with other men, which I know about. After a while she became one of the bosses, a manager. When I read her message and dint reply on time,she gets angry and feels ignored. The moment was perfect for me to make the move and kiss her but again, i didnt. Im I over thinking this? Yeah well you know I have a lot going on and Im trying to get myself right so I will do my best to, Well you know how I feel about rushing things we barely know that much about each other and you know I told u I like to take things slow so as long as you cool with that then we are wonderful because you are a great person and very sweet but its more to a companionship than that, Hi Mike. I hope this blog helped and best of luck to you with everything! This is a transformational 3-month experience with Apollonia to transition your dating and relationship life. I acted like I dont care for her but still being polite in conversation. Assuming this is what you want then you may try to contact your girl and see if things can't get back. Thank you for reading my blog about she rejected me but still acts interested. Recently, I watched a video on YouTube that illustrated the difference between passionate love and compassionate love. Why? Hi Ruben, It goes something like this: You have a few dates, then suddenly the communication becomes infrequent or he never texts you back. why making this long progress without any reason? Also how can I make contact with her? what do i do?? After that I wrote her a long letter I cant be with her like that. Hi coach, thanks for your helpfull tips, i choose to keep calm and carry on! Didnt even say goodbye to that guy. Two days ago, we stayed up late again to work. But recently I had let one of her friends know that I knew. She said to me she doesnt know what she wants. All I can say sis Apollonia, another authentic blog! We call such pointless conversation initiations breadcrumbs and their main purpose is to: alleviate guilt. (2) she said she would want us to be friends. When you date a woman, you might think that she is the best option youve ever had, but women can feel this if you treat her as though youve never had a girl like her before. It may be hurting your mental health. 10. i think im in the same situation. I was very surprised and delighted at the same time. 4. 4. Her name is Apollonia Ponti. She stop talking to you because you do Uber, na once u rush come create threat, I swear na una dy FVK UP big time. Apollonia, Hie apollonia! Hi Adamas, "Sometimes you do wanna see what somebody's up to.". 2. Thank you for taking the time to read She Rejected Me But Still Acts Interested. But do not put someone elses mask on your true personality. If she likes you, rejecting you means shes a liar. Because personally, I dont see any fun on flirting with someone that you are not interested in because it is actualy boring, so why would you torture yourself? He runs away because of your behavior. Best, But when it comes to flirting? Listen, women can sometimes be the most confusing creatures on the planet and sometimes we can even confuse ourselves! Regarding this Article I can say I had right same situation where she has shown me some acceptance first but she never shown much attention later to me. I am married and had this lady who was into me. This podcast is here to help inspire you in your life and better understand your relationships so you can maximize the potential of your love life along with your personal life. But theres better options out there. I really had no Idea of what happens . She asked why? Hi Apollonia you are a treasure. Need opinions. Because she needed a break from seeing the one person she wished was still in her life . Change Hurts. Sometimes girls know when they still need more time to move on before they let someone else in. And then I told her that since she did not see it that way we could just keep it friendly. We got close because she confided in me about her relationship and during lockdown i helped her as she decided to move on from that which was a huge decision for her. Once this girl starts coming back, I want you to pace yourself and attract her back with the right traits that you can showcase since you have no expectations of a specific outcome. She might be looking to play the field and have fun with other men. Best, If she acts like you are a stranger, someone she isn't meant to see or hear from anymore. This is a very clear sign that he still cares about you and is just waiting for the right time to approach you. -Team Apollonia. Women want to be inspired by a man and true inspiration comes from motivation and positivity. Doesnt matter how successful I am at my beloved profession. King Solomon wrote the greatest love poem ever written, 'Song of Songs", and this horse for me is God's greatest love poem from Him to me. About a week ago the communication faded out and I haven't heard from him . Her interest in me sparked again. I will never be the prize of any woman, as I never saw any woman sexually wanting me at my whole life. She approached me and we start talking as I wanted to present me as totally another person she known me before and to make her see what is she missing. Hi Apollonia, Yes, I know that this can be painful to hear but this is the truth. But I still have some concerns about the other 3 reasons that you explained, for instance a girl rejects a guy because he is too much into her than she is to him, this makes him less desirable. Best, She's making "long" eye contact. Sohelp me? 7 Reasons Why! She's still trying to move on from her previous relationship. Continuation of story. Never in a million years would I suggest any man be with a woman that does this to him. But i still have some questions, specifically on the 4 main points that you explained above. Listining to him answering question and so on. You must have a sense of self-respect for yourself and stand for how you are willing to be treated. Im sure Im doomed to dye virgin, because Ill never pay for sex. Also not spending to much time inside. Doesnt matter how healthy I am. She said me she likes me as a friend. It seems like she had a big sense of control over the relationship and this has to be even. 3 or so days later, shes texting asking if Im ok I just said yeah, why? It's normal not to want to see any of your ex's posts if you're having a hard time getting . As far as I know, a woman who acts interested, even after she rejected you, only likes the attention you give her. You are now armed to the teeth for when the war of not texting and ignoring breaks out. Your relationship ended badly. I dont want to feel played, but i do. So, if youre in a situation where youre realizing, She rejected me but still acts interested youre in the right spot! So I acted likegirl if you want me, youll need to do something actually I dont need you. What I want to have a good relationship with her, I really like her and would like to be in a relationship but not go towards marriage just keep it on the level of boyfriend and girlfriend with love and loyalty. As long as she's still alive, Virginia should eventually come back to try again. She told me she was off on Monday so . Take it from me, though: write your message, then delete half of it, then wait a day, then show it to your most hard-nosed friend, then wait another day, and then if you still want to send it, go ahead. There are a lot of people teaching techniques that make you not authentic and you may think if you say some perfect line then you can get the girl. So I cant just go by her office. And while we all long for the good old days when people couldn't ghost you simply by un-matching you on a dating app, I miss the good old days because if they continued to follow you after . But then she texts me morning to night all the time, asking things like what are you doing? Hi appolonia Apollonia Ponti is a ICF certified coach, speaker, and the #1 international dating and relationship expert in the world who specializes, Read More Dating Coach For Men Apollonia PontiContinue, Are you having a difficult time attracting the girl you are desiring right now? Heartfelt Gratitude. I would highly suggest you book a coaching call so I can help you figure out what you need to do next! Keep in mind I am a shy guy. You have not figured out how to master the dynamics when it comes to pursuing women. Posts. She came to visit me for 3 days. It was weird that they all started avoiding me. Listen, we arent meant to be everyones cup of tea and if we build expectations to be everyones ideal partner, then we start to take personal offense to every rejection. , Thanks Apollonia, this blog couldnt have come at a better time. I found it odd because 1) We haven't talked 2) He doesn't follow me on Insta, so he deliberately has to go to my profile just to see the Story. I said I dont even have your phone number anymore as I deleted it. 7 Reasons Why! I had been seeing this great girl for just over a month but things had gotten flaky. However,she still sends me chats,pictures of herself,occasionally calls me and tells me about things she is doing. Stay grounded in your dignity if this happens and move forward. Thanks for this information. In fact I was getting a lot of hot and cold from her. Yet, shell contact me whenever the mood strikes her. Dumpees generally follow their ex to keep an eye on their ex . When we had a conversation she told me joking that i bored her. The first is to just let them orbit to their hearts content. Thank you for reading She Rejected Me But Still Acts Interested! If a woman rejects a guy because he was too serious about the relationship while she wasnt, why does she still act interested? maybe you might have some more explanation about that. Apollonia and Team, Im gladly amazed to have encountered you,because everything I have read ,has resonated me. Thats a great visualization! I have Ben following you keep it comming. As i posted before on top. He was initiating majority of the contact either through a text message or snap chat in the morning and conversation would continue off/on throughout the day. Whenever Im involved with a woman whos not willing to reciprocate what Im looking for in a relationship. I thought this would at least show her to be the friend i needed. I stopped following him when we broke up. I called once, but she never answered. I was already attracted towards her before we met. Best, So glad youre enjoying the content, too! I met a girl at a park, we introduced ourselves and spoke briefly for a couple of minutes. https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/, https://www.apolloniaponti.co/break-free-of-codepedency-sp. Best, Im actually having an issue with a shy person. Ive instinctively already knew most of what you said here, but ignored it n did the total opposite because it felt right. +1 y. Apollonia has partnered up with some of the top transformational coaches. The four reasons are: The Five Stages of Grief. Best, Yesterday i sent a voice note and asked her what she thinks or feels but she completely ignored my message.By the way on Sunday, i ignored her, this was before the voice note and later through a text i told her that it wasnt personal but i found out that she actually took it personal.. so what can i do or rather what is the problem? You are a saviour for lot of men. I wrote this content by interviewing SEVERAL women! Its the same for men, sometimes you just dont feel it with a woman. I wouldnt respond to her messages or calls and keep your cool. This blog was a message from the heavens. She will be surprised and pleased, and odds are she will respond by admitting that she was wrong in some ways, too. "He said he liked me but stopped texting me all of a sudden. Apollonia. To her, you're not . Should i just let it go? A TODAY Show guest, Whitney Cummings, has made NSFW comments during her live interview on the show. So plz I need ur adivise, coz Ive tried everything I could do but no success. Then after sometime i proposed her but she said no. What you will find here is dating, relationship, and life advice from your host along with some amazing interviews with some pretty amazing experts! The truth is the girl I love rejecting but still want to be with me as a friend sometime I want to ingnore her but I wont (sorry am Tanzanian so my English is not well). If a woman rejected you and is leading you on and you continue to stick around, then you are already doing something wrong. Hi, Apollonia, She's not that into you, but she keeps you around because she's bored if. Yes. I come back later and buy the soda, I have to go now. you said that a girl might reject someone if shes not ready. - Met a girl on Tinder, we chatted for 2 months nearly and went out irl for 2 weeks, she became rude and stopped talking when she saw 2 different pictures of mine on Tinder. Hi Apolloni,my situation is way different. Line: "maybeI don't know", "I'm doing something now, but maybe later" "Idk, I'll call you later" but never really calls. They may not want to get back together or might not even think of you on a day-to-day basis anymore, but that doesn't necessarily mean they don't have any love left for you. Being aligned with a purpose and following and going after something that makes you happy is exactly what you have to do in order to get her to think of you as high-quality and different from everyone else. I watched lot of your videos, some even several times that helped me a lot. She stopped because now she . She moved from her place to another. Thank you for reading my blog post She Rejected Me, but Still Acts Interested! Best, Once your friend is feeling better, they may eventually reconnect. Holy cow, You'll know that you have befriended Virginia when she starts acting calm around your base. You can book a private coaching session here https://www.apolloniaponti.com/private-coaching/ That is it: the women just dont like me as simple as that. In this situation right now and I must tell you its so annoying because shes intentionally playing hide and seek in the relationship based on her selfish gains and I believe she thought shes smart. Was so insightful and Im sending you blessings as well. Lucky for you I have an escalation cheat sheet and a manual of 20 questions to ask women to get to know her true self. Then I said it was messed up because if a good friend just stops talking to me then they must hate me or is mad at me. Women do this, we like feeling good and if theres a guy that can do that for us, we will try and keep him around. Because i choose not to have sex with them after periods of weeks, months,the women, begin to buy gifts, take on travel trips, but wont let me pay for anything, give me keys to houses, apartments and etcetera. Anyway I dont wanna talk much were still chatting, after 2 weeks I added her on FB so she rejected me I was oops why? Apollonia. I said you wanted a space as I was rushing in you so I gave you space moving myself away from you. If someone compliments you, you like it, you want more of it. In this article, we will talk about four possible reasons why your ex may be angry with you, even though they broke up with you. Hi Steven, I would encourage you to book a coaching session with me so I can know more about her and tell you why she is acting this way towards you. Then he gave me the very horse I had been painting. A woman who rejected you will likely avoid you to prevent awkwardness. Hi Henry, Then she stopped replying me whenever i messaged her she sees it but not replied back. After meeting her I got hooked and developed real feeling and I really thought she feels the same way . , Thank you for reading my blog about she rejected me but still acts interested' Appreciate your comment. Listen, you may like this girl and think shes perfect but if you want a chance with her, then you have to make sure you do not give up your sense of control and really master your attraction skills when it comes to trying to re-attract her. Emmanuel, Recoiling, Andrias attempts to crush Anne, but she dodges it and retreats to the ceiling.) (3) at one point she said she has a boyfriend. Sorry, this happened but I would suggest taking this as a lesson. Also, when people create distance, its natural to think about and want something that we do not have. 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