Imagine for a moment that the United States was an egalitarian society. Which, coincidentally are reasons #2 and 3 why dating someone with a turbulent sexual past often spells trouble. As soon as the relationship gets rocky, Some guys are really looking for that one who has waited. You say we shouldnt judge someone on their past? If they pass some one that they slept with on the street the best thing to do is ignore them. I dont want a girl that has it in her head that 16th time is a charm. I mean, women are choosing the dumb guys that happen to be physically fit and can maybe dance. Evaluate that person for who they are now, not who they were previously. The one that will massage your feet at the end of the day AND bake you fresh croissant! Any person with more sex partners than years of life has an addiction and needs to be rehabilitated. This should matter in the sense of being fully aware of it, but I support any man being with that woman if you love her regardless of what she may have. I have had sex with a really tight girl, but she was only tight because she had strong kegal muscles. Its expensive, time consuming, heart wrenching and horrible for children and most normal people actually dont want to put themselves nor their families through it if they can help it. Let it go. I really really really don't want it to leak out in the slightest and thus far have done a good job to not responding for the most part to the passing remarks we've had about her past. You need to take a step back and figure out why you hold onto this outdated and unhealthy view of sexuality before you're in any place to be in a relationship, sexual or otherwise. number is half your age. I lost my virginity to a girl who had been with lots of guys before me. The divorce rate in the US has been declining since 1982 along with the marriage rate, and cohabitation is a big reason for it. This is why men are actually attracted to more pure women. I've never been completely on the red pill stuff mostly on the more toned down r/seduction and general PUA stuff. 20 partners in 25 years? Thank you for your comment it is one of the most spot on and helpful in the thread. What I want to encourage you to do is to understand what is done is done. That will not change because of Americas pseudo progressive culture. If u lie they woild find out. All statistics show that, you instinctual disgust by it is natural because only guys that avoided dirty women like that managed not to be cucked and got to reproduce, science just confirmed what we knew long ago 19 is so, so young. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Tell her your own. let the common sense and reality flow into youThen get back to me, you enlightened woman you. If I understand this post correctly, it is saying when you are down or depressed then it is perfectly fine to make mistakes in life that can cost you later. it's up to you to be good enough for them. As for the sinful lifestyle, if that person is no longer living that life (or even if they are) then is not judging them still wrong? thats okay. oh,stacy,you live and learn.bigger fish too fry. I don't expect women to stay virgins until marriage in today's world but at least have sex with someone you share love and intimacy with. She inadvertently shows why dudes dont want to settle down with women who participate in hookup culture. Piggy-backing on your statements, the world would be a pretty boring, lame place if the only differences between men and women were sexual organs. It is one thing if you say I dont want to be with a woman who is currently promiscuous vs. overlooking a woman who currently does not engage in all that, but once upon a time she was on that path. Nothing wrong with that. and dont forget life is a stinky bitch, you call your friend in your house and he happened to be one of your wifes exes. I am sharing my experiences and opinions. But to think you cant find anyone compatible with you is B-S. People use the word perfect as an excuse to not have to live up to any expectations. Sorry, no thanks. Shame on you all. It is much easier for a woman to sleep with a random man than vice versa. So I completely understand where you are coming from and again I think it is a very good arguement. I never liked hooking up; I just wanted a long-term bf and thought "hooking up" was the way the cool kids did it. Its not right for one gender and wrong for the other. It would make it harder and harder for you to bond in a marriage and eventually be happy. Who you allow inside yourself matters. Its become a trend now for premarital sex to happen but some girls don't approve it. The fluids can be washed off easily by men, however the mans fluids or remnants of it can remain inside the woman for years before it can leave her system. I want to dedicate long term to this girl as that is what I like to do when I commit to a relationship but I'm terrified that I will end up wasting a large amount of time on a girl who will end up cheating on me or blowing up in my face. What would Jesus do? Enter your info below and join my VIP list. I hold men and women to the same standard. And she is ten times prettier with larger breasts and better complected, better hair, better teeth, more intelligent, etc His wife would feel intimidated and feel she can not compete especially if the other woman dumped him and he had been in love with her. So if a man has slept with a hundred then he should be deemed the same way that a woman is if she sleeps with that many. If someone says he has slept with 100 women, who is sleeping around more, the Men or the Women? lol but seriously men and women should be viewed the same. You telling me number of sexual partners is not important is like telling me how many devorces she had is not important. It carries some truth to it undoubtedly. The only men who have sexual power would be BILLIONARES and FAMOUS men.thats IT. Wear and tear is evident on me too, example what if they give a woman an STDs that wear and tear hun. (if its true). Actions humans commit can be used as a good indicator of more than just past it can tell you a lot more! Whats the point of man or woman sleeping with so many partners??? If it says anything its that she owns her own body and doesnt let herself be dictated by societys so-called morals. I never said I wanted to date you or anyone like you, so your comment, No one is saying you have to date us, is a bit of a non-sequitor. HAVING A LOT OF SEXUAL PARTNER IS JUST NOT RIGHT .. Men throwing themselves at women is acceptable in society. 4) Past baggage (Kids, men, pictures, etc ex lovers who know her, pics or video of ex partners doing unspeakable things to your significant other, stories and reputation) give detailed information it will stick in their mind for the rest of their I will say that we all are entitled to our own opinions, but when those opinions are based in judgment and primitive prehistoric double standards, that makes your opinion INVALID. CLICK HERE to download this special report. Supportive. older, as to how many people they have had sex with, I say that how old they It tells men to be skinny jean wearing pussies (the opposite of what women really want) and women to be whores and sluts (who no man will ever commit to). Its more like rape in nature than sex but the female does not sleep aroundstudy this if you must knowand God says so too! Well that is the same than saying that a woman who cheat should not confess of course if the husband does not find out they could live happy for ever but the problem come that it is living a lie in both cases if the husband would have know the truth about the person they are living with probably would have not chosen to live with this person and that is the weight that the cheating/laying woman have to take with her for her whole life nor to say the fear of being caught. Main and women are different for reason and once we start opening up the doors for women to act similar to mens unhealthy actions, Youll start seeing to even higher divorce rate in the future. Men and women are different, in case you hadnt noticed. I literally threw up. And there is no one besides Him. You have a handful of female experience and all you do is wonder about her past. Women can sleep with men to get what they want and then dump them. We are happy. Times may have changed in some perspectives but evolution is a long process and these inbred instincts are deeply rooted which is why most men will have sex with a slutty girl, but will never marry or commit to her. So to simply go off of the number is in my opinion a misguided approach to understanding the person you are dealing with. Now if the real reason you hold this against a woman is because you dont want to have to compete with the level of pleasure her past lovers provided, well you just need help then. The only position here is dont let the past stop you from receiving and embracing your blessings. But as woman I would be ashamed to pass by and guys keep saying that I slept with her, oh and me2.. You dont sound like an expert. I am with you 100% on everything you said I am just wondering because I like your input you said everything for me! They are seeking love. Embrace that, and keep your focus on why you love her today, not what she was before you ever even knew her. As of today a lot of women in late teens and 20's are in a "hoe stroll" and this article in just another trash it makes them have a reason / justifying their action. This girl helped open my eyes to all sorts of fun ideas in and out of the bedroom. Only how he chooses to receive that number will things now change. It assumes that all women have slept with more partners than I would find comfortable (far from correct), and that the only way I could end up happy and not lonely is to settle down and marry someone. Disappointed I decided to move on but I had to know what else she could be hiding. Thank you Jessica : ) and you raise an awesome point. Again I am not saying go out there and be loose just addressing your point about the wear and tear. Even though maybe I shouldnt call them ignorant since I dont know them but in my opinion everyone is ignorant in some type of way. I believe the average male has a high sex drive, created to be the leader/pursuer.. If they have changed and you feel some sort of potential, give them a chance. Women have also the right to have fun. Every partner you have in your lifetime affects you whether is positive or negative so if a person man or woman goes through so many People Theyre going to have a lot baggage. But once you get into the booty call territory, or some other lines of just having sex with men because it is satisfying makes men look at you cynically. Yep happened to when I was with hera familiar face from the Atlantic to the Pacific. Don't feel comfortable dating a high count girl/guy? Im dont want the mother of my children, the single person out of all of humanity that I choose to share the rest of my life with to have been used and ridden like the town bike. Women have the choice to say, yup im gonna let this guy inside me. Like the article states you dont know why she chose to sleep with an individual or several. Good luck!! And the truth is most men wont like it. Ladies, as a Man with successful experience, KEEP THOSE LEGS CLOSED until you find the right Man. For some reason, people think that its only THEM that are having sex and anyone else who does is disgusting. The key is make him earn it, NO commitment, NO Booty! How many is to many partners for both men and women? So shes had a lot of partners at the same time in the past- if everyone in the situation knew what was up (that there was no expectation of monogamy), then theres no harm to it! You can be with a woman who only tells you she only slept with 3 guys when in reality you may have to add a 0, or two 0s. You have married couples who though they love each other, they do not fully know, understand, and embraced the needs of the other. And if you married in your 30's so much for having a family. 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